Let’s talk about inviting people to your business events in this post =) Although I tag this post related to BNI, the tips that I am going to share later applies to other events as well.

Image from BNI Harvest Networking Meeting

If you have tried inviting people to come for your business events be it networking or talks, you will agree with me that it is not easy to get the numbers especially if you are inviting business man and women because they prioritize almost all events according to ROI (Return On Investment) – if your event does not justify their time to be there, then most probably you will have a poor turnout.

Based on my experiences and observations from the other very experienced networkers in my business circle, I realize that there are only three things that you need to do it properly in order to have a high turn-up rate for your events.

1. Is this what they need?

I do not invite every person I meet to my business events such as BNI. If the first thing you meet someone new is to ask him / her to come to your event, then this is something that you may want to stop and re-think on.

Listening is by far the most important skill we need to learn and refine (not only for business). Thus, the first thing before we even start inviting is to ask relevant questions. For example, if you are holding an event for Internet Entrepreneurs to come together and network, you need to ask and assess if the person you are talking to has this area of interest.

A good question you can start off is, ‘Have you been to other business networking events?‘. This question will not only help you understanding them better but also make them reveal if they think they needed such exposure. You will be surprised that some business owners will answer this question admitting that they should go around networking more often! Now, do you think if you invite them to your event at this point of time, the person will be far more receptive and appreciate your invitation?

2. Persistent – the additional effort that makes the difference

A lot of invitations I receive nowadays rarely lasts more than 3 times. If you are holding an event that happens regularly (for example, monthly), you must be persistent and keep inviting no less than 7 times. Most of the times, people are kind enough to tell you that they have other commitments and couldn’t attend your event. If this is the case, invite them again when your next event is coming up. This kind of followup is the key that makes the difference.

I remembered I was inviting a business associate of mine who has rejected me no less than 5 to 10 times (I lost count…) because of his morning commitments. He finally make it to my BNI event one day and thank me for inviting him to attend such an eye-opener event =) I think sometimes we just have to be persistent especially if you see that your event will add value to the others.

3. Reminders – the secret to 100% turnouts

I never know that a simple reminder can make such a big difference until I came across a material by Dr. Ivan Misner who mentions that reminders are important and we should remind the people who have agreed to come for our events one or two days before the event.

It can be frustrating sometimes if you see that the person you have invited did not turn up in the end just because they forgot. Hence, a simple reminder either through phone or SMS can be very helpful. At the time of posting, there are already systems in place to send out automated reminders to people who have registered for events. One company that can help you to leverage this technology is FlexiSoft – managed by Norman Chin from BNI Singapore, Raffles Chapter.

Do you have other tips to share regarding inviting people to your business networking events? Feel free to share your thoughts with me =)